How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 30.06.2025 04:20

How does one succeed in life?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Ask yourself:

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Would you raise your children like your parents raised you?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

What I need from you?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

That's it for today.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.